Nice News Times Two

Theater 12 June 2013 | 2 Comments

Two quick bits of good news to share:

My play ABSTRACT NUDE, I have just learned, will be read in Chicago as part of Circle Theatre’s New Works Festival, August 9-11. I really wish I could be there myself — I’m not going to be back in Chicago till the end of that month — but perhaps one or two friends might show up and represent for me? (I have complimentary passes to share…)

Closer to home, I’ve written a short play called DREAD that Forum Theatre will be performing as part of Zeitgeist DC on Monday, June 17, at 2:45. (It’s a response to a documentary theater piece called A SMALL, SMALL WORLD, and it may be the single most bleak story I’ve ever told.) I’m going to be out of town on a much-needed vacation with my family, so I can’t be there myself… but again, maybe somebody I know and love might pop in to see how it goes? It’s free, though you do need to reserve tickets — and the whole day of programming looks terrific.

What’s particularly cool about both of these? I didn’t know about either of them a couple of days ago. Opportunities come out of nowhere sometimes, you know? It’s good to stay prepared…

Theater of Belonging

Introspection,Theater 10 June 2013 | 22 Comments

I live in the United States of Me, a nation populated almost entirely by people I’ve friended, people I follow, and people who follow me.

I live in the United States of Me, and you (most of you) live in the United States of You. We belong to and participate in social networks running on algorithms designed to ensure that we only encounter the ideas and images we’ve (often subconsciously) asked to encounter. And with every single “like” and “favorite” we tweak those algorithms, too, making them even more effective at giving us just what we want. Like rats pawing madly at levers to release food, we click and re-tweet to create endorphins in our own brains.

In our own virtual countries, we listen to self-curated radio stations on headphones designed to make sure nobody else listens in. We recline on our own couches programming Netflix queues and DVRs so that precisely the stories we know we’re going to love will be ready for us, right on demand, at all times… stories we selected from the recommendations issued to us by those same social networks and algorithms.

We customize websites to make them present us with exactly the right content at exactly the right time. We aggregate news into politically-approved feeds that arrive neatly-wrapped in our in-boxes. We live in a time and place of such abundance that many of us are able to choose precisely what we’d like to eat for every single meal and have it delivered directly to our houses… in single-serving sizes, even, if that’s what we prefer.

Everything is exactly like we want it to be. (In some ways.)

I live in my own country, and so do you, and so do you, and you, and you, and you. Our customized territories do overlap, mind you, in spaces both virtual and real, but we work hard—desperately hard—to make sure any encounters we have with each other don’t displease either of us. We prefer to maintain the illusion that we’re both kings and queens of our own realms.

And we don’t like strange terrain, either. Whenever anything doesn’t seem familiar, we tell ourselves we’re just conquering new territory. That it’s destined to become ours. We never really leave our borders, no matter where we go. The sun never sets on our iLives, just as it once never set on the Roman Empire.

Which leads me to the central question I’ve been wrestling with for quite some time now: how in the heck is the new play sector supposed to compete with that?

What do we have to offer—really—that’ll pry anybody out of a box that tight, that customized, at a pre-appointed hour, to come sit in a possibly-uncomfortable chair, and be on good behavior, at great cost, while complete strangers tell an unfamiliar story… possibly about some other part of the world with unfamiliar customs or ideas or worldviews that might seem somewhat threatening?

It’s amazing to me, sometimes, that anybody ever goes to the theater at all.

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I should probably make clear that I am not, in fact, opposed to any of the technological advances and social changes I’ve just described; one might as well oppose the tide.

In point of fact, I’ve embraced technology with both arms for most of my life. At 16 years old, I spent virtually every penny I had to acquire a brand new Apple IIc computer when other kids my age were buying, well, almost anything else… and I haven’t slowed down since. I’ve had a smart phone for just about as long as phones have been smart: I rely on its GPS for getting places; I turn it into a mobile hotspot to get a better internet connection on the Amtrak; I use it to access three different email accounts. I have an iPad that I read on, check email on, surf the web on, conduct bank transactions on, check the weather on, play games on… and keep beside my bed so that it’s near me the minute I first wake up.

As an artist, furthermore, I’ve embraced every possibility technology offers us. I’ve advocated for integrating Twitter into live performances. I’ve written podcast plays. I’ve had two different plays live-streamed. I’ve created two different transmedia performances that incorporated video, photography, Tumblr posts, and on-the-spot photos taken by audience members. And I’m just getting started.

But it’s not wise, I believe, to advocate blindly for the future. Change always comes with costs, and we who push for it really ought to be sensitive to the things that get lost when we get what we want.

I listen to a Bose Wave radio; I stream Pandora on both my phone and my tablet, and for several years I had a satellite radio subscription, too. But if you walked into my living room, you’d also see a 1940 Philco radio occupying a central position. In my dining room sits a 1938 tabletop radio—one I restored myself, by hand—and similar antiques occupy primary spots in my library, study, and media room, too. I love them; they’re among my most-prized possessions. They remind me of the critical importance of stories: how they’ve always made us gather. When I gather in my living room with family and friends, I sometimes drift out of the conversation to imagine us all sitting in silence, hunched forward toward that Philco, listening to an episode of a favorite radio drama or a news bulletin from some part of the world none of us would ever visit. What charged moments those must have been for people! But no more.

And yet: there was a time before radios. Radios were once a new technology. They inspired cultural changes, and those changes must have seemed difficult at the time. What was lost when radio arrived? The private time one might have spent with a newspaper? Was there a drop-off in attendance at movie houses? Did people have fewer conversations? Read fewer books?

Whatever the cost for embracing radio, we paid it. And I happen to believe—though I don’t know how I’d prove this—that we got a good deal. But still: we paid.

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Do you know the historic Lincoln Theatre in DC? National Register of Historic Places; more than a thousand seats; Duke Ellington, Louis Armstrong, Pearl Bailey, Billie Holiday, Sarah Vaughan, and Cab Calloway all appeared there, among many others. It was restored 20 years ago, but it’s badly in need of money to keep it up to snuff now. Of late, the DC government’s basically been asking the city’s arts leaders for permission to turn it into the only thing that could possibly fill that many seats on a regular basis: a movie theater.

More than a thousand seats. To fill a room like that, you need to DO something or SAY something—or both—that one in every 5,000 people in the broad metropolitan region (or one in every 600 just in the city proper) are really not going to want to miss. You have to create an experience that absolutely must be had: that will convince all those people to show up at an appointed hour, credit cards in hand, fears cast aside, their own personal bubbles temporarily abandoned. And to make sure the theater keeps thriving, moreover, you have to do the same thing, night after night after night. 150 or 200 times a year. Year after year after year.

The whole thing feels really, really daunting. Heck, it even feels daunting if I imagine a 250-seat theater. So I’ve been asking myself… what does get people out of their personalized houses? For what reasons do they come congregate in the ever-unpredictable public square? What makes us sit around the radio, metaphorically-speaking, and tune in together?

We gather for sporting events. And movies, though less often than we used to now that we can watch them at home. We gather at houses of worship, though in increasingly smaller numbers. Parades get us out on the streets. Circuses. Fireworks displays. Inaugurations. Music can still draw big crowds. Even some really popular restaurants. Oh, and bars. Night clubs. Parties. Festivals. That sort of thing.

What do those things have that theater doesn’t have? Because they’re all more successful at gathering crowds than we are. Let me ask this another way: what can we have that they don’t have? How can we beat them? (Can we beat them?)

I hear a lot of people say that the one thing we have in our corner is that theater is live. Usually this claim is made when theater’s being compared to film. But ALL of those things I just listed are live. Films are even live, in the sense that a live audience is watching the story unfold on the screen at the same time. The fact that theater is live, I believe, can’t be what distinguishes it. It just can’t. We need something else than that.

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Let’s ask a different question: why do people gather for, say, sports? Sporting events have real, extreme, often-brutal physical competition; we watch sports, and our mirror neurons get excited enough that we feel like we’re out on the field or the court ourselves, so our hearts really get racing. Sporting events are also unpredictable, a fact that often forces us to live in the moment while we watch them: we don’t know whether we’ll be victorious-by-proxy or not. They also contain echoes of both war and mythology, so we can let one team stand for good and the other for evil—not consciously, perhaps, but somewhere deep inside us—and transform the experience into a comedy or tragedy, depending on the outcome. You can see the appeal, I should hope, even if you don’t share it.

(Aside: I find the condescension that some theater artists display toward sports very disappointing. They have a great deal to teach us, I think, if we let them.)

So… what do we in the theater have that compares? Well, we don’t have the same feats of physical strength (though acting is athletics), but we do have conflict: characters vie against each other for competing desires, at least in traditional drama. But while sports are clearly real (I’m setting aside the possibility that games might be fixed), theater’s artificial in some sense. Our mirror neurons do fire… but maybe not quite as hard as they do when you’re watching a sporting event. I think maybe the uniforms make the players “generic” enough that we can more easily project ourselves onto them… and the lack of diversity in the characters we’re putting on stage might also make it tricky for some people to empathize completely.

Finally, there’s the matter of unpredictability. Yes, audiences don’t really know how a story will turn out when they walk into the theater, unless it’s a historical drama… but the performers do, and I have to think that saps at least some of the whoa-look-out! out of the experience. Furthermore, the fact that we tend to rehearse plays until they’re polished, until so much of the sense of the risk of being out there in front of people has vanished, must make our work less interesting to people. As evidence, I offer the fact that the hardest-to-come-by theater ticket in DC every year is for a “bootleg” production of Shakespeare in which the entire cast has blocked, rehearsed, costumed, and lit an entire play in fewer than eight hours. THAT is some derring-do right there, and people sense it.

In 2010, approximately 45,000,000 Americans attended live theater events (at all levels, from Broadway to high school productions). In the same year, more than 70,000,000 Americans attended just Major League Baseball games. The total figure for all sporting events, as far as I’m able to determine, is between 500,000,000 and 1,000,000,000 per year. I’ll have what they’re having. Won’t you?

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It wouldn’t be hard to do similar comparisons between theater and the other human pursuits I’ve listed—concerts, churches, and so on—but it would be rather tedious, wouldn’t it? Because we all know: whatever we’ve got, they’ve got a more appealing version of it. Usually much more appealing. They’re so much better at convincing people to get up out of their chairs and sit in a shared, real space together at the same time than we are that we ought to be begging them to tell us their secrets. But instead we act haughty and superior—not always, but often. As if everyone else is just stupid and wrong for not realizing why they ought to be spending their time inside theaters instead. Which is, you must realize, part of the problem in the first place.

Would you want to belong to a club that believes you’re beneath being a member?

But I think that’s exactly it: we treat the theater all too often as if this is still the 1980s, and (to paraphrase the most popular commercial slogan of that era) membership in the drama club has its privileges. But we don’t live in a country club world any more. We live in—no, we occupy—an Arab Spring world. The top-down, hierarchical corporate structures of most of our theaters (which are by-products of the industrial era) aren’t as relevant any more as they once were. The future belongs to open, collaborative peer networks, modeled after the distributed nodes of the internet, not the spoke-and-hub frameworks that defined everything from the early American railways to the original AT&T network. The future looks very different than the org charts of most American theaters. The future looks more like a revolution.

Oh, right! Revolution! That tends to get people up out of their seats and leave their isolated bubbles, too, doesn’t it?

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Here are some questions to which I do not have answers but which I believe nonetheless to be revolutionary:

What if we did embrace a peer-networked worldview in the theater? What if we threw caution to the wind and started transforming the American theater so that we embraced the evolution of culture instead of trying so damnably hard to preserve what we’ve already built?

What if we stopped turning up our noses at all the experimentation going on with tweet-seats and live-streaming and transmedia storytelling? What if we stopped saying “That isn’t real theater?” (To be clear, what I normally hear from traditional theater practitioners is ”That’s a nice little experiment and all, but it’s not real theater”—a response that resounds with equal parts condescension and dismissiveness.) What if we invited people to bring those personalized universes they live in with them when they come to the theater?

What if we started combining what we usually think of as theater with, say, biology experiments? Or yoga classes? Or podcasts? Or role-playing games? Would we find new collaborators to work with us? And thus other audiences to engage with?

What if we started inviting our audience members to make theater with us? (Instead of us making it for them?) How many people do you think might come join in if we started saying Theater is a chance for you to make something instead of Theater is a chance for us to do something to you—maybe even something you might not like? 

What if we stopped defining the value or success of a piece of theater by how it measures up against some “objective” standard of excellence or quality? What if, instead, we defined success as the measure of how personally relevant and resonant our work is for the largest number of our community members?

At this point, I think we need to be asking all of these questions. We need to re-energize the research and development division of the American theater. (Though we might need to find it first.) We need to put experimentation and investigation and exploration at the core of what we do. We need to become explorers and scientists, first and foremost, in our theater practice. (And no, doing another straight play by an MFA-adorned writer, after it’s done in New York, does NOT make you either an explorer OR a scientist. It makes you a capitalist.) We need to at least re-consider and re-test every single premise and first principle we hold dear… and, if they prove to be inaccurate, be fearless in letting them go.

We’re living in the Age of Pandora. The Sirius/XM Era. But we’re still telling stories that are best suited to the antique AM radios with which I’ve decorated my house. We’re fiddling with the same few dials, trying harder and harder to find a clear signal while the static continues to swell. There’s abundant creative possibility all around us, but we keep limiting ourselves, time and time again, to the same few channels.

Look at where people are. Where they really spend their time. If we want to connect with them, let’s go where they are, not force them come to us. If we want to create art, let’s make it and take it to them. If not literally, then at least psychologically. And technologically. Let’s use theater—whatever it looks like—to create one united state out of the various and independent algorithm countries we’re all living in. Let’s re-animate and re-invigorate our fellow dopamine-driven citizens. Let’s end loneliness. Let’s create belonging. Whatever it costs us. And let’s do it soon.

See a Play with Me?

Theater 6 June 2013 | 2 Comments

Last year, when Ryan Rilette was named the new artistic director of Round House Theatre, he inherited a season that was—I’m understating here—a touch heavy on the testosterone. To his great credit, Ryan didn’t just throw up his hands and say “Well, that’s the season that’s been programmed. What are you gonna do?” Instead, he made a quick replacement, swapping out a play I’ve already forgotten for BECKY SHAW by Gina Gionfriddo. It struck me as a very bold, very healthy step in the right direction… and I said so.

In fact, I promised to do my level best to round up as many people as I can to come see the show with me. After all… if we want to see more diversity of perspective and storytelling on our stages, we have to support artistic directors when they make bold, positive choices.  Last year, only 20% of the plays produced in the DC metropolitan area were written by women; we can and will collectively do better, but only if we each individually make thoughtful choices about the shows we see. I keep a spreadsheet to ensure that I see more plays written by women than by men. You’d be surprised how much personal enlightenment that simple gesture can lead to.

So that’s why I want to ask you: will you see this play with me? I want to round up as many people as I can to come see the June 12th, 7:30 pm performance, then grab a drink nearby afterward to chat and hang out. Nothing fancy: just friends seeing a show together. One of those little, almost unforgettable gestures that sometimes, taken together, add up to real change. If you’re in, leave your name in the comments as a declaration of support for plays written by women… and so I know to expect to see you there!

 

Big. Life. Change.

Introspection 3 June 2013 | 20 Comments

Last week, I got laid off.

I’d been working at Threespot, part-time, for more than 11 years—which is quite a long tenure these days—when the company somewhat abruptly let a dozen of us go. Many of us had similar skill sets, and a change of direction meant that we’d all suddenly become, in essence, unaffordable luxuries: great people for the wrong kinds of projects. It wasn’t a personal decision, it was a personnel decision, and I completely understand it… even though it came as a bit of a surprise.

I loved my time at Threespot. I did work I will forever be proud of.

I helped the Peace Corps recruit more Volunteers for service overseas… and we won a few Webby Awards and nominations in the process. I helped the Department of State’s Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs completely re-imagine its entire interactive presence. I helped the National Academies teach the world about energy. I led a project that oriented millions of Americans to the world of Medicare and Medicaid.

I made a video that helped National Wildlife Federation raise money to save polar bears. I helped the Global Alliance for Vaccines and Immunization raise billions of dollars to immunize children worldwide, and I helped the American Association of Poison Control Centers keep both children and adults safe and healthy.

I helped the Drug Policy Alliance advocate for rational drug policy in the United States. I helped the Laborers International Union of North America serve its union members. I helped the Council on Foreign Relations create infographics for Time magazine.

I helped Zipcar find more drivers. I helped XM Radio find more subscribers. And a few weeks ago, I finished a project that will help the Chronicle of Higher Education transform the way high school students, their parents, and their guidance counselors think about the college selection process.

I traveled as far as Helsinki, Finland and as wide as Mt. Sterling, Illinois to meet and work with clients. I made great friends and forged great partnerships. I became a Certified Scrum Master. I spoke at South by Southwest. I spent late nights writing proposals and long weekends wrestling with content management systems. And I have terrific memories to hold onto… memories I will cherish.

But it’s time to embrace new opportunities… which, in truth, I’d been considering for some time. For more than a decade, Threespot has been tremendously supportive of my professional development as a communications and technology strategist, and now is the right moment for me to begin considering new ways I can contribute my time, energy, and experience to organizations I believe in.

I want to keep doing good in the world. I want to support non-profit organizations—particularly those working in the arts and culture sector, where I have deep roots—in their efforts to engage new (and existing) audiences. I want to take what I know about digital communications, brand, and social media and put it to good use.

I’m excited about taking on projects large and small, either really far-out or more run-of-the-mill, anywhere in the country. (I have a few great things lined up already that I’ll be announcing soon!) This is my one life, and I’m going to make it count.

So are you interested in working with me? You get can to know more about here on LinkedIn. And contact me here. Let’s talk!

Lists and Social Change in the Theater

Theater 28 May 2013 | 3 Comments

For some time now, without realizing it, I’ve been relying on what seems to be a very effective method for organizing, rabble-rousing, and raising awareness that I feel like I really ought to share with the wider world. I’ve been—hold onto your hats—making lists.

World-shaking, I know.

But listen: it really has been making a difference. A huge difference. I’m not sure I can articulate why that is… but I thought that perhaps if I laid out a few of the lists I’ve created (or, in some cases, crowd-sourced), you might be persuaded to give it a chance yourself.

(Yes: I’m making a list about lists. Sue me.)

DC-Area Playwrights

This collection of the playwrights working in the DC metropolitan area was my first foray into list-making… and it’s led to some rather large-scale changes for a lot of people. It started with a simple request here on my blog: Send me, I asked, the names of any playwrights you know in DC. I seeded the list with the 40 or so people I already knew of myself, then sat back and added every name people sent me. Within days we were up to 100, and before long we’d maxed out at about 250: way more than I would have suspected were out there. It was empowering to know how many of us were out there… probably working alone most of the time.

I think people really liked being counted… and being included in something. (Even something as small as a simple list.) Before long, in fact, they wanted more… and the DC-Area Playwrights Facebook group was born. We now have a place to congregate (virtually), ask each other questions, share opportunities, arrange IRL gatherings, and help each other develop professionally. It’s a vital resource for the community… and it came from a list.

I Follow Playwrights

Once I got a taste for organizing playwrights, I thought… why stop at DC? I knew that for many playwrights, joining Twitter and finding playwrights to follow was a daunting task, so I curated a nationwide list of playwrights who tweet. The @IFollowPWs account on Twitter serves the sole purpose of following as many playwrights as possible… so that other playwrights can explore the account’s following list and find people to tweet with. I suspect the list is also going to find other uses, somewhere down the road… but the fact that it’s offering a simple, handy service makes it more than worth the effort to maintain it right now.

Plays in the DC Theater Season

Last year, with an eye toward getting hard demographic data about the playwrights being produced in DC, I made a new (and much more ambitious) list: a spreadsheet that included all the plays that were appearing on every single stage in the DC area during the 2012-13 season. The result was eye-opening: a clear indication of the lack of diversity—one that inspired a great deal of  hang-wringing, soul-searching, genuine conversation, and debate. Not to mention progress, too… as I hope this upcoming year’s list (launching soon) will reveal.

Books I Read and Plays I Saw

Of course, lists don’t only help you hold others accountable; they can help you take a hard look at your own behavior, too. For some time now, for example, I’ve been keeping a list of the books I’ve been reading. I’m not sure what inspired me to do it—I think maybe lists just come naturally to me—but I’ve found that it’s really helped me more attentively and thoughtfully curate what goes into my mind. I’m also now doing a similar thing with the plays I decide to see this season. I keep a simple spreadsheet that notes which theaters I visit and the gender of the playwrights whose stories I’m being told. I’ve made a commitment (to myself) to seeing more plays written by women than by men, year after year, until there’s genuine gender parity in the theater… and the list helps me stay true to my intentions.

Playwrights Wish List and Code of Ethics

The wish list was another crowd-sourced effort: a list of things playwrights would like to be different about the American theater. It helped convene a great national conversation about the ways in which our current play-making ecosystem wasn’t serving playwrights very well… and it also inspired a companion list, the Playwrights Code of Ethics. (You don’t really deserve to ask for changes, I find, if you aren’t willing to live up to high standards yourself.) Again: much discussion ensued. (And it’s probably time to revisit both lists, now that I think about it, gathering more input from more playwrights…)

77 Good Things

The last list I want to share (though there are others) might be my favorite: 77 things I happened to like (on the day I made the list) about the DC theater scene. (I picked 77 because it seemed daunting… and, in the end, it wasn’t all that difficult to come up with that many.) This is the kind of list that’s highly subjective; I could have added a thousand different things and it wouldn’t really have mattered. What mattered was the list as a whole, which really did nothing more than spread good cheer, creating (I hope) an esprit de corps among my fellow theater practitioners. (Thinking about it again now makes me feel like creating another similar list.) But an era of good feeling can be really hard to create in an artistic community… and if lists can help achieve that goal, I think they’re great.

Okay, so… those are my lists. Are you convinced? Are you ready to start making one of your own? Or should we make a list together first? Perhaps another crowd-sourced effort: a list of lists we’d like to make! What do you say? I say: let’s do it.

Know How You Can Help?

Film,Theater 22 May 2013 | 0 Comments

I don’t know if I know a single artist who doesn’t believe, deep-down, that that the work we do has the potential to transform lives. The way we usually interpret that platitude, though, is that we expect our work to transform the lives of the people who engage with it. But we sometimes forget how WE ourselves are transformed by making art. Wrestling with creating something mammoth and important and real, with expressing our vision for the world, requires us to become different, to become new, to give ourselves over to something undiscovered and unpredictable. And we become, I believe, better people for having made art.

Shouldn’t everyone have that experience? Perhaps not at the professional level, but at some level? Wouldn’t human culture be richer if everyone had a regular chance to participate in art-making? I think the answer to that question is a fairly obvious YES. But because of the difficult economic and social realities of the lives so many people lead, the ability to create art has become a privilege not everyone can afford. That too few people have access to. As a result, our culture remains duller than it needs to be: less rich for the loss of the voices not being heard. We need to keep finding ways to bring the practice of art-making to more and more marginalized people.

One such program with which I’ve become familiar over the years is The Possibility Project. This is an international organization that brings teens from diverse backgrounds together to write, direct, rehearse, perform, and produce an original musical based on their own lives. They meet weekly for many months, work incredibly hard, and contribute their energy and vitality to their communities in unnumbered ways… and they are utterly and permanently changed by the experience. I’ve been a proud supporter of the organization for many years.

The Possibility Project’s latest endeavor is really ambitious: a full-length feature film written, directed, and performed by youth living in foster care. KNOW HOW, as the film is called, captures the reality of life in foster care from the point of view of those living in it. But that meager description does little to convey what the effort is really about: the short trailer here does a much better job of showing off the film’s energy, intensity, and (if I may say so) possibility. It looks GREAT.

But it’s unfinished. It’s close to being done, but it needs help getting across the finish line: post-production, editing, scoring, etc. So I’m hoping that when you click that link and watch that trailer, you’ll also take a second to do one or both of the following two things:

  1. Support the film. Donate whatever you can to help finish this amazing film.
  2. Tell the world about KNOW HOW. Share this blog post (or write your own!) or the Kickstarter link on Facebook. Email them to friends. Tweet about @knowhowmovie, using the hashtag #fostercare. Just help amplify the message.

Thanks so much for helping make our world a richer place!

Only One Woman at a Time

Film,Theater 20 May 2013 | 1 Comment

This is the third entry in a continuing series of guest posts. Our contributor is Heather Morrow, a Canadian playwright I’ve become acquainted with via Twitter. Heather has some fierce personal insights about gender and opportunity that I’m very happy to share. You can follow her on Twitter @theatrejunkiehm.

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I’m a playwright, but I have a couple of story lines in my head that want to be movies. One idea is about a novice (female) director who accidentally becomes famous for another reason and acquires an agent (who’s a woman, too). The heroine wants to parlay her new-found fame into directing work, and her agent bluntly tells her: “Is your name Kathryn Bigelow? No? Then you’re never going to direct a film, honey. There can only be one woman director working at a time. Unless you’re Sofia Coppola, and you know who her dad is.”

My brain came up with that. As soon as I wrote it down, I was horrified by myself. Did I really think that? Frankly, though, it seems to be true, as suggested by this recent Business Week article: Why Women in Hollywood Can’t Get Film Financing. A female investor who doesn’t trust female filmmakers? WHAT? Then there were this year’s MTV Movie Awards, during which the funniest joke of the night (for me) came when hostess Rebel Wilson said the producers were very surprised when they met her. “They thought I was Adele,” she quipped.

Because there can only possibly be one woman larger than a size two who sings pop music, of course.

Back during the dark period in which a new Twilight movie was coming out every year, I watched a panel discussion of women writers here in Edmonton. One of the panelists was an award-winning news columnist who said that Twilight was an example of a critical problem: too many women make heroines out of characters who don’t do anything. Who sit around and react to the men who sweep them off their feet. A passive protagonist: the kind who makes girls want to grow up into women who don’t trust themselves to accomplish things. And who don’t trust each other, either. Who nobody trusts, really, with any task requiring decision-making and action.

I’m a writer of theater, and a similar thing seems to happen here, too. I’ve had the great fortune to work with a few very, very good female directors. All are acknowledged by their peers to be extremely talented. Yet none of the directors I’ve worked with have landed a gig at a regional theater with an actual budget. They all have to self-produce as well as direct.

So… what to do about this? How can we break the Twilight curse and start trusting female directors to get things done? And not just one woman, but lots of us. Here are my ideas:

Bet on a Winner

All artists start out small, doing small shows with small budgets, often at festivals. Out of those festivals comes outstanding stuff. And because the female directors I know—and, I imagine, many more—have to produce their own shows, they often do so at festivals.

A terrific, easily transportable show, inexpensively produced: isn’t that exactly what many theaters need? Shows made by artists who have the innovation and creativity to do a lot with a little? So let me ask artistic directors: why not stick your necks out and program shows that have already proven they can kill it? Why not take a show from a festival, one that was directed by a woman, and program it as-is?

Oh, and once that inexpensive show has made your theater money? Trust that female director with another of your plays.

See Plays Directed By Women

All you women in the audience out there. Yes. You.

Seek out plays directed by women and pay your money to see them. Before you say you’re not going to some terrible show you have no interest in just because a woman directed it, I guarantee you will find a great play, which you will love, which a woman happened to direct, if you look.

Don’t believe Twilight. Believe that a fellow woman can do it. You’ve got no business telling your daughter, your niece, or your BFF that she can do anything she wants if you don’t actually believe women can do anything, too!

(Oh, and men? You should do the same thing, too.)

Stop Supporting Sexist Garbage on Stage

If the show you want to do or see is taking the mickey out of misogyny, or depicts women taking on the big bad world, brilliant. But anything purposely showing female characters being marginalized and treated like crap? Don’t perpetuate it. Don’t go see it.

If you pay to see a show that you expected to be good, and instead it does anything misogynist, and it bothers you (which I would hope it does), say something. The reason such work continues to exist is because theaters still program it and audiences go to see it. You can take that away.

Not only does such crap continue to make us believe women can’t direct—or do anything else—it also prevents women from directing. No good female director will touch work making her look bad, and theater needs all the good directors it can get.

But hey… maybe this all seems like too much for you. After all, what’s the worst that could happen if more isn’t done to get more women directing?

Well… I’m a female playwright who once had a terrifying year in which I got so discouraged I simply gave up. I stopped writing, I stopped reading plays… and I also didn’t go to any shows. So what happens if every woman trying to make theater just gives up? What if we all stop going to shows? What if we abandon the theater entirely? By many measures, we buy a large majority of the theater tickets. Doesn’t the theater need us to keep coming?

Social Media Soul-Searching: Three New Lessons

Introspection 13 May 2013 | 14 Comments

Confession: the very first thing I did after deciding to take a soul-searching break from social media was log into both Facebook and Twitter.

I’d announced my hiatus on both platforms, you see, and I wanted (a bit urgently, if I’m honest) to find out how people had responded. On Twitter, there was a string of replies wishing me well, a few virtual hugs, and direct messages from concerned friends. (Thank you!) On Facebook, there were also a few supportive comments… along with just a touch of snark from one or two people. Nothing I hadn’t ever seen several times before, actually, when I’d seen others make similar pronouncements.

In case you’re wondering, I’m not proud I did that. In fact, I think it’s safe to say I’m a little bit ashamed. So why share it with the world? Because I really want to make what the recovery movement calls a “fearless and searching moral inventory” here. I’m crawling into a cave to look for dragons… so I can’t be surprised if I find them, and I can’t really pretend they don’t exist, either. No matter how ugly or scary they might be.

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Here’s the fully honest truth about what inspired my little break from les médias sociaux, as I sometimes like to call then when I want to make them seem more important than perhaps they are: I started to not really like the way I was behaving some of the time.

Slowly, quietly, while going about my business and tweeting more than 35,000 (!) times, I somehow managed to forget that there were human beings reading my tweets, not “brands.”  In the ever-burgeoning crowd of semi-strangers, furthermore, I lost sight of a few of my friends. People I love and respect and admire and even work with in the real world, not to mention people I’ve met and come to care about in the virtual world. I started to speak somewhat carelessly and broadly, neglecting to consider how my tweets might “land” with people. I wasn’t at my best.

Meanwhile, on Facebook, a similar pattern was beginning to emerge. Even after the widely acknowledged heat of the political season had wound down, I found myself engaging in occasional… well, let’s call them virtual donnybrooks. I commented wildly, sent messages in haste, and once or twice communicated in tones I would never have used had I been speaking face to face with someone.

More importantly, my heart was now and then turning sour in ways that really made me uncomfortable. I just didn’t like the way I was thinking about things, or about people—about fellow human beings. My behavior and my feelings weren’t squaring with my own highest image of myself. And I felt pretty rotten about it.

So… I decided to stop for a little while.

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In the first few days of my social media silence, I noticed a parallel silence beginning to form in my mind. It had once been full, I was discovering, nearly all the time, with the flotsam and jetsam of my friends’ thoughts and lives, amassed from both Facebook and Twitter, and suddenly there was just… nothing. It felt lonely. I had nothing to think about. It was unsettling.

I also began to feel like I had nowhere to put my own thoughts. Passing observations about… whatever: things I heard on NPR, articles I was reading, interactions with my son. There were more random bon mots that I wanted to utter than my casual interactions with other human beings during an average day could possibly accommodate. (Though perhaps all those mots weren’t as bon as I thought they might be. With no one to re-tweet or like them, how would I know?)

And then, rather more quickly than I might have predicted, the silence in my mind began to be filled up with what felt like deeper, slower, more substantial thoughts. And the impulse to issue 140-character proclamations of one kind or another dissipated: not entirely, mind you, but enough that I noticed. I felt more present, more connected to the people I was interacting with… especially at home. It felt really, really good.

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So I started to sit for a bit and just observe, without judgment, the impulses I still had to tweet or make status updates. I recorded a few things I felt like sharing (but didn’t), without editing or curbing my impulses in any way. Here’s one of the first such utterances I repressed:

This New Yorker take-down of Dr. Oz makes me fall in love with the magazine all over again: http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2013/02/04/130204fa_fact_specter

Now… those who know me well can probably see my hallmarks all over that sentence. It’s about exposing pseudo-science, for one thing; it invokes the New Yorker, with which I’ve had a long and complicated love affair, for another. But what strikes me most about it now is one word I would probably have glossed over before this hiatus: take-down.

Why did I choose that word? Why didn’t I use, say, analysis? I can tell you this much: I actually put very little thought into the selection. What I did put, more than anything, was emotion.

My limbic brain, roiling with feelings about the subject, created that sentiment. Few (if any) higher editorial faculties were involved. What I wrote didn’t gently invite fans of Dr. Oz to re-consider his value as a source of medical wisdom, as “analysis” might have suggested. The word “ take-down” implied that if you didn’t agree with me, you weren’t quite New Yorker-worthy, in a way, in my estimation. There’s a smug superiority baked into the sentence’s grammar that’s just unmistakable. Another dragon hiding in that cave.

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By the third day without Twitter, I was starting to feel guilty about not replying to the tweets people were undoubtedly directing my way. I got emails about a few direct messages, too, and those nagged at me particularly harshly. My smartphone popped up with a notification that my wife had updated her Facebook status, too (I forgot I had set it to do that), and I struggled to wait till she got home to ask her about it. Whatever she posts almost always inspires or challenges or delights me.

And I knew there was more to be entertained and enchanted by, too: friends’ big life events, thought-provoking blog-posts, moments of wisdom and clarity and levity, opportunities to connect. You know, the stuff that’s really valuable about social media.

But I didn’t want to go back yet, not for a few more days… mostly because I wasn’t sure I’d figured anything out yet. You can’t make a foray into the dragon cave, after all, and not come out with treasure. Even if it’s only a few rough gems.

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A day or so later, I got an email from LinkedIn, the social network with which I’ve had the least engagement. My friend Bob—a well-known comic book writer and editor who teaches and writes fiction as well—had “endorsed” me for… get ready for it… my expertise in social media. I had no idea what to do with that meaningfully-if-accidentally timed message. I quickly deleted it… but I couldn’t really let it go.

A quick look at LinkedIn (which I decided didn’t count as an end to my social media fast, given that I don’t really interact there) revealed that several dozen people have made similar endorsements of me, not only for social media but for the oddly similar social media marketing (what’s the difference between the two?), digital marketing, and blogging. I get why people have done that; I’ve lectured on social media, and I’ve advised a wide variety of fairly high-profile clients (at my day job) on their social media strategies, so my resume makes it seem appropriate. But right now, it rings false.

After my recent rough patches on Facebook and Twitter, in other words, I find myself questioning the scientific validity of LinkedIn endorsements, rather than letting them go to my head. I suppose they’re a lot like Klout scores in that regard; my number’s fairly high there, too—though shrinking, certainly, with every passing day in which I don’t tweet or make status updates—but I find myself wondering now whether one can actually earn a high Klout score without sacrificing… something. (I don’t know what, but something.) I almost wish that whole platform would just go away.

Because here’s what I’m thinking: if I really was a social media “expert” with a high Klout score, I wouldn’t have been so careless on Facebook and Twitter at all.

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So maybe that’s the first bit of treasure I’ve discovered here in the cave: a big gold plate of humble pie. I am not quite the expert I thought I was. I’ve been sitting with that one for the last few days and it’s feeling right and necessary and (sadly) true. I have a lot more to learn. More to consider. More to just observe and think about. More care to take when I participate.

And you know what? I honestly believe lots of us do. I’ve seen so many friends—people I love and admire—also behave… well, not ideally on social media. I don’t think (and perhaps I should have made this clear from the beginning of this blog post) that I’m particularly unique in anything I’ve admitted here. We’ve all seen people write awkward things; we’ve all at least thought about tweeting or commenting with less-than-generous sentiments ourselves, and some of us actually do it all the time. And that makes me wonder, rather sincerely, whether social media brings out the worst in us or simply reveals some of the ugly things that are always already there, but invisible. I can’t speak for others, but perhaps in my case, it’s a bit of both.

So… when I do return to social media—which by this time I’ve decided to do in conjunction with the publication of this blog post—I am going to do my darnedest to keep a new sentiment in mind: be your best self. (Not long ago, I published a blog post containing seven steps to success for playwrights on Twitter, and this will be the first of three new tips I want to add to that list.) I want to be my best self in all of my interactions in social media. That’s going to take diligence, attentiveness, and a willingness to admit when I get it wrong and re-think how I say things sometimes. It won’t come easily… but it really does feel pretty important.

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While I’m thinking about re-thinking how I say things… I want to share the next revelation I’ve had during the last few days: the “enter” key is much more powerful than I ever realized before.

What I mean to say is this: I give a tremendous amount of thought and consideration to the blog posts I write, both here and elsewhere. I work my way through multiple drafts, editing and re-editing; I get feedback from other readers, consider studiously what they’ve told me, and re-write again; and then I do one or two copy-editing passes through the text before I finally hit that “publish” button. (Sometimes even do another draft AFTER the blog post has gone live, too.) The result may not be perfect, but it’s all very carefully-crafted. And it’s also much truer to that best self I’m trying to become.

So here’s my second revelation: I need to start thinking of my enter key—the one that makes a tweet or a Facebook status update go live—like a “publish” button. The act of publishing feels so much weightier to me, as a writer, than simply making a comment. So much more meaningful and significant and (here’s the important part) considered. In other words, I need not only to think before I tweet, as I suggested in my last blog post… I need to allow for a revision phase, too, even if it’s only a few seconds long.

I need to think of my social media updates, in other words, the same way I think of all of my writing: as damned important, worthy of careful deliberation, and (more often than not) deadly serious.

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The final revelation I had during my break from social media came from another suppressed Facebook status update:

At three years old, my dear, sweet son Porter seems to have finally acquired his very first imaginary friend. Nana—his sister, he calls her—lives in “a rainbow house” that’s very far away. You have no idea how much I want to go there with him sometime and see it.

(That was a particularly hard one not to share, I must confess; I’m glad I get to do so now. The other tweets and status updates I collected without posting? Gone: I deleted the file. It’s probably—definitely?—for the best.)

I spent considerable time mulling this new development in my son’s psychology, which I found (as I bet all parents do) endlessly fascinating. How does he know such detail about an imaginary being? How can he speak to her? How do they interact? And it was only after a good long while that I realized (duh) that I do that, too. It’s almost exactly what I do when I write. My characters are extremely real to me. The only difference, I believe, is that I’m perfectly aware that my characters aren’t actually real… and I don’t know, developmentally, whether my son’s figured that out yet.

But maybe, I suddenly realized, I needed to figure something out. Maybe an imaginary friend was exactly what I needed.

I’ve always known this, but it’s hitting me more directly now than ever before: in social media, everybody’s always listening. Anyone and everyone can witness every interaction you ever have. So what if, every time I tweeted or posted something on Facebook, I imagined one friend—a real person I’m really connected with—reading what I was writing. Instead of thinking (while I’m writing a comment) “Here’s what I really want to say to this person,” what if I asked myself “What would I say to this person if I also knew my imagined friend was going to overhear it?” What would that do for me?

I think it would do a lot. So I’m going to try it. And I know exactly who to imagine, too—the person who reads, thinks about, and comments on more of my writing than anyone else: my patient, thoughtful, brilliant wife.

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I got an email today from a friend who realized I was taking a break from social media, but who still wanted to reach out to me to make sure I was doing okay. His pleasant, concerned, humane note of friendship made me realize I was ready to go back, if only to sustain connections like that one. But… not right away.

As I write these last words, I’ve queued up this blog post for three more days into the future, just to give myself a little more of what I’ve come to think of as my “quiet time.” (I’ve begun driving home from my office in the afternoons without the radio on for similar reasons; silence has genuinely begun to seem golden.) I’d like to think that I’ve enjoyed this time away enough that I won’t go back to social media with quite the same intensity… but my new-found (and tentatively held) humility about social media means I don’t want to make bold pronouncements right now. Let me just say, perhaps, that I’ll go back and see what I see. I’ll take my three pieces of treasure out of the cave and, you know, do my best.

And perhaps I’ll also take other breaks from social media, too: whenever things begin feel a bit too raw, maybe, or whenever I’m not feeling really connected to people and to my purpose in the world. And perhaps in time I will become the expert that the world (or a small part of it, at least) thinks I am.

We shall see. Hope, and see.

 

 

Seven Steps to Success for Playwrights on Twitter

Theater 29 April 2013 | 13 Comments

So much has been written about the intersection between Twitter and theater from a big picture perspective (see Theater, Twitter, and Revolution at HowlRound for my own personal take), but I’ve yet to find a simple list of tips to help playwrights who are new to Twitter get accommodated to the medium. So I thought… why don’t I make one?

#1: DON’T USE TWITTER.COM

Here’s the first and perhaps most important bit of news I can share with you: Twitter.com is for suckers. The best way to tweet is by using one of two programs — either HootSuite or TweetDeck – that are designed to make Twitter much more robust. After you create your Twitter account, pick one of those two platforms (I use HootSuite myself) and create an account there, too, then do the following:

  • On either HootSuite or TweetDeck, you can create multiple columns in which to view tweets. Your first column will simply show you all the tweets written by everyone you follow. That one’s easy: it’s built into the platform, so you won’t have to create it. (For what it’s worth, in time, you’ll pay the least attention to it. There’s really no way, after all, to keep up with what everybody’s saying all the time. But you can look at it now and then to see what people are interested in.)
  • Next, create a second column to show you ONLY the tweets that include your Twitter handle — that way you can be sure to reply to people who tweet to you. This is the column you should check most regularly. Don’t let tweets go unanswered for long.
  • Your third column should show you all of your Direct Messages; those are private tweets meant for your eyes only. You won’t want to miss those… but they won’t come very frequently. Then again, some of the most important chats on Twitter happen privately.
  • Finally, you should create additional columns beyond those three to follow specific hashtags. All of the most vital ongoing conversations about theater happen on hashtags. Speaking of which…

#2: LEARN THE LAY OF THE LAND

There are two hashtags in particular you really need to know about. First, there’s #2amt: you should create a column in HootSuite or TweetDeck for that one immediately. It’s a 24-7 worldwide channel for conversation about theater, and you never know when a rollicking back-and-forth is just about to start… or, if you like, you can start one yourself by posing an interesting question. (Pro tip: listen for a while before diving in. But then… do dive in.) The second hashtag of interest: #newplay. Conversations on #newplay tend to be a bit more curated, often (but not always) inspired by the good folks at HowlRound. I have a column for that hashtag in HootSuite, too, but I only tend to slide it into view when there’s a scheduled chat. Finally, you should look for any region-specific hashtags having to do with theater. In DC, for example, we have #dctheatre on which to chat about local matters. Los Angeles has #lathtr. There may be others as well.

#3: TREAT TWITTER LIKE A PARTY

In some ways, Twitter is sort of like the very best theater gathering you’ve ever been to. The room is always filled with this completely intriguing mix of old friends, new friends, complete strangers with interesting histories, people you know from a distance that you’d really like to meet, oddball hangers-on, those one or two people you’ve got crushes on, and just enough boors and loudmouths to have something to talk about. So how would you handle yourself at a party like that? Anyone with half a brain knows: be on your best behavior; be interesting, but not obnoxious; be your real self; and be respectful about entering conversations with people you don’t know… but don’t hang back, either. (Twitter doesn’t reward wallflowers.) You do those things, you’ll get along just fine.

#4: DON’T SELL, CONNECT

Let me be perfectly clear about the worst mistake I see playwrights making on Twitter: tweeting links to blog posts and articles, over and over again, without ever engaging with people. (I should perhaps have written that last sentence in all caps to get your attention, but I’m showing some restraint.) If that’s all you do on Twitter, you are missing the whole point of the platform. Twitter is NOT a broadcast tool: a place for you to shout to the world. Twitter is a place to connect, discuss, debate, encourage, invite, incite, learn, listen, discover, make friends, and wrestle with big ideas in small sentences. If all you do is log on, shout “look at me” or “look at this,” then log off, you’ll fail to make the most of the medium… and in time, people will start to tune you out.

#5: THINK BEFORE YOU TWEET

Are you old enough to remember what it was like to hang out in certain chat rooms? Roiling expressions of pure human emotion, they were sometimes so full of rage and vitriol that there was no room for civil discourse at all. Twitter, in its worst moments, can sometimes become like that, I’m sorry to say. I’ve fallen into the anger trap myself; anyone who spends time on Twitter at all can say the same, too. In time, it becomes clear how important it is to consider your 140 characters very carefully, especially in the heat of any given hot moment. Having issued that warning, however… please do forgive yourself when you fail, because you (probably) will. Just ask forgiveness, learn from it, and move on.

#6: BE PATIENT

Can you remember the first time you learned to play, say, chess? Even after you learned the rules — which probably took a while all on its own — you still needed quite some time to master the strategies behind the game, to learn how to explore multiple permutations in your head, and make it all feel natural. Twitter is like that. (Chess is harder, but still…) You can’t expect to just create an account, log in, follow a bunch of people, and “get” it. So be patient with yourself. And don’t expect to learn followers overnight, either. Some of us tend to feel entitled, as writers, to an audience. We expect them to show up just because we’ve arrived. That just ain’t true on Twitter, where you earn followers by being engaging and insightful, over and over again, for a long period of time. Be patient with that, too.

#7: WHO TO FOLLOW

Make it easy on yourself: start with your friends. Look up the Twitter handles of people you know in real life. That way, you’ll feel less awkward tweeting to them. (Pretty soon, they’ll introduce you via Twitter to their new friends… who will become your new friends in no time.) After that, find a bunch of artists you admire or arts institutions you value and follow them, too. You might find their tweets interesting and worth replying to, but you also might not… and there’s NO shame in unfollowing someone if you find yourself bored. (It’s YOUR Twitter feed, and you should take responsibility for curating it so that it feeds your creative life. You should periodically groom the list of people you follow and remove the dead weight.) Finally, take a look at @IFollowPWs — it’s the largest-available list of playwrights who tweet. (Disclosure: I created it as a resource for playwrights.) If you follow it yourself, the account will (eventually) follow you back to add you to the list. And if you comb through the list of people followed by that account, you’ll see playwrights far and wide all across the country — famous and inspiring — to consider following yourself.

And that’s it — that’s my advice. You do those seven things, and you’ll be fine!

After Boston

Introspection,Theater 23 April 2013 | 2 Comments

As I write this blog post, it’s a mere seven days since the Boston Marathon bombings became the singular focus of American attention. Narratives about freedom and Caucasians and manhunts and first responders and video surveillance and religion and politics and Miranda rights and Watertown and brotherhood have begun spinning, revising themselves wildly, it seems, with every passing news cycle. Twitter and Facebook and the increasingly feckless fourth estate—not to mention good old-fashioned word of mouth—have been fully revved up the whole time… and we all still have more questions than answers, as it should (probably) be.

In a few days’ time, my play THE BUTCHER—which happens to have been inspired by a real (if little-known) terrorist event that took place in the DC suburbs in 2004—is going open in New York. (It’s a three-day workshop production at the Players Theatre as part of The Theatre Project.) I’ve been sitting with this fact sort of heavily since April 15, wanting to tread carefully and make smart decisions… and, more importantly, use the story I’m telling as a way to (hopefully) convene a healthy conversation.

With that desire in mind, I tried to schedule a talk-back for the night I’m going to be seeing the show myself, on April 26… but the  theater was, unfortunately, already booked. Instead, I thought perhaps I’d create this simple blog post, with an offer to converse in any way that might make sense, in the comments below, with anyone who might care to chat. I don’t have any answers, of course—who among us does?—but I do have a desire to wrestle through this scary and confusing world with company, rather than doing it alone.

So please join in. Oh… and if you plan to come this weekend, I hope you’ll also consider this blog post a trigger warning of sorts. These are intense days we’ve all lived through, and I don’t want to send anyone over any edges accidentally. My play doesn’t include any scenes of overt violence or terror, though there is some blood… and more than a few references that might give people pause. So be forewarned.